Need More Discipline Gain More Understanding

The great author and Bible scholar Roy L. Smith once said,

“Discipline is the refining fire by which talent becomes ability.”

I like that quote. Do you?

The reason I like it is because I’ve seen firsthand how so many people have the talent to be a good actor, or even a great actor, yet they never get the discipline to refine that raw talent into the level of ability it takes to compete in Hollywood successfully.

If it was easy….everybody would be a famous actor, right?

But here’s something I want to do to help as many people as I can. After all, I’ve been helping people apply acting talent to the ‘real world’ for quite a few years now and there’s certainly enough different things we humans need to do that everybody can be a success at something.

I want to offer you, and your friends, a free copy of my book, “Acting for Real”. The book follows along the central theme of many of my products…i.e. there’s a superstar in everybody but it just takes some refining to allow the talent to come through.

Acting for Real” is a good read and it’ll take your through the introspective and action steps you need to recognize your behaviors (productive and counter-productive) and talents in dealing with people and motivating yourself. It’ll teach you how you can become a better leader, a better communicator, more creative and more successful in pretty much anything you do from the boardroom to the bedroom.

Here’s what you need to do:

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That’s all there is to it. It’ll take you a couple hours to get through it…and more if you actually do the exercises …..but I know you’ll enjoy the journey.

That’s all I’ve got for now. Until next time…..

 

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Life, One Scene At A Time (Part II)

Heaven High and Happy Thursday!

 

Part of the process of becoming an actor is getting used to the presence of the camera and beginning to feel like it’s just another friend of yours in the room. Nowadays people can get that kind of experience very easily if they use tools (like portable video cameras and YouTube) that are easily available and if they will become more aware of chances to make easy, simple videos.

I do a lot of acting coaching and success coaching with business people. Many of them are already very successful but the reason they come to me for help is because they’ve heard that video is ‘where it’s at’ today in terms of using the internet in business (and that’s very true!). Their problem usually is that they sometimes lose all their confidence when they know they’re being filmed.

I always try to get them started with little, small, easy-step projects that will take them step by step, just like a baby learning to walk, up the ladder from simple video projects to more sophisticated one. This is a practical, simple process that works every time.

There’s a saying that ‘fear’ is just False Evidence Appearing Real (F.E.A.R…get it?) and I think that’s true. I’ve never heard of a camera biting anyone. Anybody can get excited about something and even for those things that maybe they’re not so excited about…they can still learn to act excited.

That’s really what acting is about…..expanding your emotional flexibility so that your personality gets wider and bigger and more flexible than ever before. Since so many of the situations we get into in life call for the same personal skills of expression…..it’s like it’s a movie that only has a handful of basic scripts.

I tell my acting students and life coaching students that once they learn some of the techniques I will show them about acting for real life (which by the way is the name of a book I recently wrote, “Acting For Real”) they’ll be amazed at how much more confidence they’ll have in everyday common business and personal situations.

Matter of fact, from the bedroom to the beer hall to the boardroom, life is just a series of scenes that we find ourselves in again and again and again.

I’m finding that many of my adult students are interested in the internet. They want to know what it takes to market themselves, their company, their products, services and ideas via the internet. I always tell them that the most important skill they can learn is how to make good videos.

I really believe that. I know internet video works because not only have I been making a living with film and video for almost all my life but my two sons do it too…although in a slightly different way.

My sons, James and Tyler McFadden (AKA: The McFadden Brothers) got interested in video and YouTube many years ago when it was still fairly new. They really dug into learning all they could about videos and eventually they became one of YouTube’s first YouTube Partners. Some of their videos have received over 1,000,000 views.

I’m really excited about how many people today are waking up to the idea that the internet and YouTube.com is the ‘the People’s Hollywood‘. Every month there’s new success stories of people using video successfully in affiliate marketing or in expanding markets for their own products, services and companies.

I share all the knowledge of my many years of successful acting and James and Tyler share their several years of experience making successful online videos. It’s a winning combination that’s helps people achieve greater success, quicker and have more fun doing it.

We’ve prepared a special video and info pack for you that gives you a sample of the information in this new program and we invite you to get your copy right now by clicking here.

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Life, One Scene At A Time

Heaven High and Happy Tuesday!

I’m a pretty friendly guy and I always like to take time to chat with people when I can. I take life just like I took my acting career…once scene at a time. During the day when I’m out and about I like to ask people where they’re from and what they do. Of course, if I meet them where they work I already know what they do.

But sometimes people will ask me what I do. When I tell them some of the many things that I’m doing now and that I used to be a Hollywood actor and TV star, they almost always say something like,

“Ahhh man! I wish I could do that!”

I usually don’t have time to talk to them about how strongly I feel that they could make it in Hollywood if they really wanted to. But I was thinking the other day about how they have so much more opportunities to ‘be in the movies’ than me and my generation ever did.

You see, we didn’t have the internet and YouTube and inexpensive video recorders back then. Back then the average person maybe had a little Kodak still camera, or later on maybe they had a camera that took color pictures or slides. But certainly they never had something that they could whip out in 5 seconds and capture video on-the-spot like they can today.

I know that back in the golden days of Hollywood there were a lot of very creative people who probably would have taken those kind of simple tools and just started making their own simple movies. I’m sure some of those people would have eventually graduated up to higher levels of acting too….in Hollywood or on Broadway or perhaps on TV.

Actors back when I was learning the trade took a long time to get the kind of practice you can get very easily, actually ‘in’ your own movies today. When I have a chance to give advice to would-be actors, I always tell them to make as many home movies as they can.

Nowadays getting practice acting and presenting yourself and speaking on camera is so much easier than it used to be. I know that lots of people are initially a little shy about being on the front end of a camera but I always tell people that the best way to become a star is to pick a niche that they’re interested in and just make a little, teeny movie about that. I tell them to start from there and then gradually make bigger and better movies as they get more practice.

Lots of people I meet already have an interest in some type of career other than Hollywood and I often ask them if they’re ‘doing anything with it’ online? Usually they don’t know what I mean.

But then I ask them if you’ve ever made any movies or videos and put them on YouTube. Most of them know what YouTube is but oddly enough they very seldom have ever made a video of themselves….I mean, a video movie where they’re actually speaking about something or presenting something or trying to make a point to the viewing audience.

To learn more about this, “tune in again” this Thursday for more tips!

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Life, One Scene At A Time

Heaven High and Happy Tuesday!

 

I’m a pretty friendly guy and I always like to take time to chat with people when I can. I take life just like I took my acting career…once scene at a time. During the day when I’m out and about I like to ask people where they’re from and what they do. Of course, if I meet them where they work I already know what they do.

But sometimes people will ask me what I do. When I tell them some of the many things that I’m doing now and that I used to be a Hollywood actor and TV star, they almost always say something like,

“Ahhh man! I wish I could do that!”

I usually don’t have time to talk to them about how strongly I feel that they could make it in Hollywood if they really wanted to. But I was thinking the other day about how they have so much more opportunities to ‘be in the movies’ than me and my generation ever did.

You see, we didn’t have the internet and YouTube and inexpensive video recorders back then. Back then the average person maybe had a little Kodak still camera, or later on maybe they had a camera that took color pictures or slides. But certainly they never had something that they could whip out in 5 seconds and capture video on-the-spot like they can today.

I know that back in the golden days of Hollywood there were a lot of very creative people who probably would have taken those kind of simple tools and just started making their own simple movies. I’m sure some of those people would have eventually graduated up to higher levels of acting too….in Hollywood or on Broadway or perhaps on TV.

Actors back when I was learning the trade took a long time to get the kind of practice you can get very easily, actually ‘in’ your own movies today. When I have a chance to give advice to would-be actors, I always tell them to make as many home movies as they can.

Nowadays getting practice acting and presenting yourself and speaking on camera is so much easier than it used to be. I know that lots of people are initially a little shy about being on the front end of a camera but I always tell people that the best way to become a star is to pick a niche that they’re interested in and just make a little, teeny movie about that. I tell them to start from there and then gradually make bigger and better movies as they get more practice.

Lots of people I meet already have an interest in some type of career other than Hollywood and I often ask them if they’re ‘doing anything with it’ online? Usually they don’t know what I mean.

But then I ask them if you’ve ever made any movies or videos and put them on YouTube. Most of them know what YouTube is but oddly enough they very seldom have ever made a video of themselves….I mean, a video movie where they’re actually speaking about something or presenting something or trying to make a point to the viewing audience.

That’s all for today. Tune in again on Thursday for the last half of this lesson.

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The Ultimate Guide to Creating a Successful Personal Development Plan

Heaven High and Happy Thursday everyone!

How has your week been?

We’ve been working hard, developing a great new product to help everyone reach their goals and become successful in your business endeavors. However, we do realize that success in business is just as important as success in your personal life. Because of that, I wanted to touch on personal development today.

I am a strong believer in having a good plan to keep you organized and to aid you in keeping your eyes on the prize. That’s why I wanted to talk to you today about having a personal development plan.

#1) Why Write A Plan?

I find that writing down your goals works toward success for three different reasons:

It aids you in clarifying your goals.
It shows you why you are reaching for certain goals.
It can serve as you compass to make sure that you are headed in the right direction.

Once you start developing your plan, you can really start to see these three things come out in your short term, medium term, and long term goals.

 

#2) So What Is A “Personal Development Plan”?

A personal development plan highlights your life purpose. In developing this plan you can finally see what it is that you were born to do. It is a nice, neat place to write down your dreams. No judgements. No embarrassments. No need to be shy. This is just for you.

 

#3) It’s Difficult.

I’m not going to BS you here. Coming up with a plan isn’t going to be easy. When you finally define those goals, it is going to be even more difficult to really form the habits that you will need to accomplish your goals. However, once you form those habits, it’ll soon become second nature to do what you need to do and to stay focused.

Okay!

Let’s get started!

 

#4) Your Plan

The first step is to take a day off from your work and personal life. Doesn’t sound so bad yet, does it? Take a day for yourself. Get up at a reasonable hour and go for a brisk walk or exercise to get your blood pumping. After a refreshing shower, grab a notebook and pen, then head out to your happy place.

Your happy place is anywhere where you feel the most comfortable and relaxed. It can be a favorite coffee shop, a park, a place out in the middle of the woods, or even your own home. Be prepared before you leave your house (if you are leaving) because you’re going to be gone for a large portion of the day.

Once you are settled, take a moment to clear your mind. Got it? Good. Now crack open that notebook. This notebook is going to be your best friend throughout this journey. Make sure to mark these specific sections (make sure that there are enough pages in each section):

 

Your Lifelong Dream. This is what you were meant to do. This is the meaning of your life. If you could choose one thing to dedicate your life toward, this would be it. Go ahead and take a moment or two to fill out this section. Get as detailed as you want.

Your Long Term Goals. These are the dreams that you want to work toward in each aspect of your life: Career, Finance, Health, Social, and Personal. Go ahead and fill out these sections now.

Your Medium Term Goals. These goals are the ones that you’ll need to take and accomplish in a five year span of time in order to reach your long term goals.

Your Short Term Goals. These are the goals that you’ll need to accomplish between a few months time to each year, leading up to that five year mark. These goals will allow you to see how much progress you are making and they will make sure that you are on track.

Your Values. You need to make sure that these goals all fall within your values. This will be a good reminder of what your values are.

Your Successes and Milestones. Write down your successes as you accomplish them. Make sure that you date your successes so that you can really put a timeline to your progress.

 

Okay, now that you’ve marked your sections, go ahead and fill out as much as you can. Take the entire afternoon to do this. If you find that you need even more time (which is totally understandable), do some research and come back in about a week to look at what you’ve got and add to it. I suggest that you do this anyway so you can really assess your passion toward these goals.

This is the rest of your life that you’re talking about. Some of these goals may change as you experience new things but that’s okay. Just as long as you are happy and you are working toward a passion, you can change what you want.

 

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5 Ways to Be More Productive & Successful At Work

Heaven High and Happy Tuesday everyone!

How has the beginning of your week been? Have you been productive so far? Every now and then I don’t feel like doing much of anything. If you know me, you know that I like to keep busy. I’ve got ideas running through my head at all times: new business ideas, ways to improve on our products, ideas for new books, etc.

When I start feeling burnt out because I’ve been pushing myself too hard, I start to get fatigued and tired but – more importantly – my productivity suffers. I’ve discovered a few tricks that help pull me in the right direction in these situations.

If you’re not your regular productive self or if you need a boost in productivity when you’re at work or working at home, try some of these tips and tricks.

#1) Stop Multi-tasking

This works for everyone. Instead of working at 20% on five different projects, use 100% of your focus on one project or one task. If you have more than you can handle at that moment, delegate some tasks to your team. Don’t know which tasks to assign to others? Take a good look at the tasks that need to be done. Which tasks:

  • Fit the strengths of one of your team members?
  • Fit your skill set well and should be completed by you?
  • Can be done by someone else?

#2) Stop Checking Your E-mail Every Other Minute

mail-566337_1280When you delegate tasks to others, you shouldn’t be micromanaging those tasks. Leave it to them and focus on your specific task or project. The same goes for your e-mail. Dedicate only a few minutes to checking your e-mail every day at scheduled times. I check mine three times a day: when I first walk into my office, right after lunch, and about an hour before I leave the office for the day. If I check my e-mail more than that during the day, I end up wasting more time than I need to.

#3) Stop Focusing – Only for a Few Minutes

Clearing your mind every now and then is like doing a soft reset for your brain. Just take a few minutes, several times a day, to just pause your world. Step away from your computer, your office, or even your work and clear your mind. You can go out for a walk in the park. If you can’t do that several times in the day, try stepping away from your office and walking around your floor or go out and walk around the actual building, outside.

You may also need a bigger break from the actual project. If you are able to switch gears, take a break from your task by working on a different task. Procrastination may be your brain’s way of telling you that it’s tired and needs a break from what it’s currently working on.

#4) Stop Wasting Everyone’s Time

meeting-808754_1280One of the ways that you can boost productivity is by, well, not wasting everyone’s time with meetings. One on one meetings should never last longer than 20 minutes. If it does, it’s because someone is talking about unnecessary things or this one meeting should actually be two smaller meetings that are spread out throughout the week.

Long meetings aren’t productive because people stop paying attention after a long period of time. Not to mention, if you cut out an hour or even just a half hour of your day for a meeting, you’ll feel like you need to use up all that time, which could lead to time-wasting discussions over unimportant topics.

#5) Stop Making It Easy to Procrastinate

Sometimes we make it way too easy to let our mind wander. In order to keep your procrastination level down, keep your bookmarked websites (that aren’t used for work) in a folder that isn’t easily accessible. There are a few online apps that you can attach to your browser which will block social media sites (and any other websites that you choose) during certain hours of the day. You can also use focus boosting apps like Pomodoro timers which will have built in five and fifteen minute breaks in between timed 25 minute working sessions.

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Tips for Forming Successful Habits (Or Breaking the Bad Ones)

Heaven High and Happy Thursday!

Today I wanted to talk to you about something that is near and dear to my heart: personal improvement – more specifically, building better and healthier habits for yourself. There are many different ways to go about it. Some examples would be:

Do a 30 – Day challenge. Use the 30 days to focus only on ONE target habit: either getting rid of a bad one or starting a healthier one.

entrepreneur-593378_1280Write your goals out on paper. Also include your motivation, the things that get in your way, and a quick plan that will help you be successful.

Repetition is boring but it works. It isn’t the most exciting of tips or techniques but you will need to utilize early repetitions during your habit forming journey. It all has to do with reducing the variables and forming a mental reflex (so to speak).

Think positively. I’ve preached about the benefits of positivity in the past so it should be no surprise that this is on the list. Positive thinking won’t directly affect your success rate but it will make the journey a lot easier.

Have others hold you accountable. Tell your friends what you’re up to. Announce it on your social media profiles. If you tell your friends and family that you’re looking for their support, some of them should come to your aid.cell-phone-791365_1280

Reward the little things. No matter what goal you choose, if you’re making small strides, you should reward yourself. Write down a little reward next to each of the steps to defeating this bad habit or building a good one. The more difficult the step, the bigger the reward should be.

If you fail, don’t get too distressed. Yes, it can be disappointing. However, if you analyze what went wrong, plan for instances like this in the future, and try again – your “failure” will just be a lesson.

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Charisma Key Component of Success in Life

Do you recognize “charisma” when you see it?

That’s not really a trick question because charisma actually operates more on a sub-conscious level than on a conscious level.  Some people have a certain amount of it naturally but for most people it’s actually something they develop over time…often as a consequence of some other activity.  But let’s be sure we’re defining it correctly.

When I say ‘charisma’…I’m just referring to that quality of personality that makes people naturally like you.  Sometimes it’s a quality that begins to work right away in an encounter and at other times it’s something that takes a little while to have an effect.  But there’s no doubt that some people just do seem to have it while other people obviously don’t.

Can you remember some opening scenes from movies that starred one of your favorite actors?  Maybe it was Robert Redford, maybe it was Tom Cruze or maybe it was Julia Roberts?

Fact is that we all can’t help but be effected by first impressions.  And probably the biggest single factor contributing to first impression is body language.  Point is….charisma is a big deal and people that have it AND know how to use have a big advantage in all aspects of life.

In Hollywood we know the importance of first impressions, body language and charisma.  In fact much of the training we take and give is about just those things.  The ‘take away’ for non-Hollywood types is that charisma is a skill that can be learned and that’s exactly what I teach in my personal coaching, seminars, and eBooks such as “Personality, Personality, Personality”, “Acting For Real” and “Dating For Real“.

Charisma is valuable because it strongly influences the people you come in contact with.  If you’re applying for a job and you can get the interviewer to ‘like you’…you’ve got a much better chance of getting that job than somebody with

more skill than you have but not as much charisma.  The interviewer will often pick you over the other person and justify it logically some other way.

If you want to see one very topical and recent example of where charisma, body language and style were very important just look at the recent two Presidential and Vice-Presidential debates.  Most of the discussion and critique afterwards revolved not so much around the substance of what the candidates said but rather their charisma (or lack of it).

I’ve written two eBooks which, if I do say so myself, are very good on the subject.  These books aren’t based on academic theory either.  They’re the ‘real deal’…real techniques that I used for a long and successful acting career in Hollywood and that I still get paid good money to teach highly placed executives and business owners.  Point is…they work in the real world.

I’m firmly convinced that so much of what we accomplish today comes down to this area of charisma and personal communication.  People live so much in the ‘fast lane’ today that it’s just difficult to get their attention.  You can’t do it with technology and facts alone.  To be more in control of interpersonal relationships, you’ve got to be able to trigger sub-conscious emotions.  Understanding how to create and control charisma is the way to do it.

For a very practical examination and discussion of how charisma works in real life, I want to invite you to take a look at my two ebooks, “Dating For Real…For Women” and “Personality, Personality, Personality” over on Smashwords.

Meanwhile, don’t miss the next debate coming up soon.  I predict you’ll see big differences in both candidates.  It’ll be fun to see.  Let me know what you see, will you?

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3 Ways That Gratitude Can Help You Be Successful

Heaven High and Happy Thursday!

This morning I watched a video (which I have added to the bottom of this post) that reminded me about the power of gratitude and positivity. I wanted to pay it forward by sharing my insight on the topic and showing you this wonderful video as well.

Scientists and researchers have done an extensive amount of research on what emotional intelligence (being optimistic, showing your appreciation, smiling, being happy, etc.) can do to your overall well-being. Their findings are incredibly powerful and can be summarized in these three points:

#1) You Will Attract Positivity

Being positive is one of the best things that you can do for your personal and professional life. Being optimistic has been scientifically proven to increase happiness, productivity, and success (in various forms). When you show your gratitude, you are showing positivity in one form. Saying “Thank you” and showing your appreciation is a conscious decision to acknowledge your blessings and will attract other positive actions and people.

#2) You Will Attract Opportunities

Working in a corporation (being a cog in a corporate machine) can really put a damper in your positivity and can breed negativity through the anonymity that is involved in big corporations. Instead of being frustrated at your current position, look at how you can create a positive atmosphere for yourself and the people around you. It will breed positive opportunities because you will be much more attuned to doing a good job.

When you are happy, optimistic, and show your appreciation toward others; your drive for success is further enhanced. When you are driven by positivity, you will succeed more often. When you succeed more often, those achievements help to fuel your positivity. It is a fantastic cycle of happiness.

#3) You Can Focus On What’s Important

Research has shown that the brain is fairly incapable of doing more than one conscious thing at once. In other words, multitasking just splits our attention. Instead of thinking that we are being more efficient by doing two things at the same time, you should focus on the important task at hand. Focusing on that task will aid you in savoring the present moment and focusing on the good.

Let me leave you with this adorable but informative video about showing gratitude and positivity in your life:

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Finding Inspiration in Everyday Life

Heaven High and Happy Tuesday!

Do you ever run into a rut where you just can’t get inspired by anything? Every now and then I find myself stuck. It’s not that I don’t want to work or create (though we all have those days too). It’s that I can’t find the inspiration that’ll help me stay motivated.

It was the great Jack London (author of “The Call of the Wild”, “White Fang”, and “The Sea-Wolf)) who said,

“You can’t wait for inspiration. You have to go after it with a club!”

That’s exactly what I want to teach you today. I want to teach you how to run after inspiration and hogtie it down. Be proactive in your creativity by creating your own inspiration out of everyday things.

 

#1) Don’t Be Afraid of Risks

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There is always a risk when you do anything. Getting up out of bed in the morning could lead to a myriad of different mishaps. You could burn your tongue on hot coffee. You could get hit by a car. You could get fired. So what is it that assesses the value of each risk in our heads? More importantly, what decides which risk is too dangerous to take?

On the flip side of that coin is the chance to rise above our challenges, which will lead to unique opportunities. There are small and large risks that you could take, which could lead you to a multitude of chances that would otherwise be unavailable to you if you stayed on the safe road.

So go ahead: speak up at the next meeting, think outside of the box for your next project, go out and network with strangers, don’t be afraid to approach your mentor and ask him or her a question about success, etc.

 

#2) Notice the Details

 

Noticing the small details around you will help you make small connections between different topics. Exploration is natural for us. We are naturally curious. For some of us, that curiosity is hampered as we get older. So look into how things work. Learn new things. Take classes. Read about topics that interest you. Go outdoors. Look around. Be aware.

Part of this has to do with being present. Instead of overlooking the small details, be present in your activity and notice all of those tiny aspects that you would otherwise ignore.

 

#3) Find Inspiration Online

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Let’s face it, you’re probably on the internet for longer than you need to be each day, right? Why not spend that time looking at things that will inspire you instead of watching an endless string of cat videos (though those videos do make us happy).

Watch a TED video. Read blogs of people that inspire you or that you admire. Participate in forums to open your view to other’s POVs. Search for inspirational images, FB posts, tweets, and other things that you can use as a jumping off point. Print out those images and tack them up in your office. Surround yourself in inspiration.

If you want to learn more about what you can do to be successful, grab a FREE COPY of Thom’s book, ACTING FOR REAL, by clicking on that big, beautiful, green button below.

Well, until next time! B BOP!

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